The Girl in The Mirror: How 2020 Became The Year of My Grand Shift

In 2020, as the world came to a standstill, Olamide found herself at a crossroads. A long-term relationship unraveled, forcing her to confront the weight of heartbreak, uncertainty, and a life that no longer felt like her own.

Then came the lockdown—a period of forced solitude that brought not just global chaos but a deep personal reckoning.

Stripped of distractions, she was left with only her thoughts, her pain, and the daunting task of redefining her friendships. And herself.

Would she be consumed by past demons and lingering grief, or would she emerge as something new—someone truer to herself than ever before?

A raw, deeply personal memoir of loss, self-discovery, and transformation, The Girl in The Mirror is a story of breaking, healing, and reclaiming one’s power.