In her first book, Ifeoma cuts to the heart of the matter with her witty, straight-forward, scriptural and relatable take on life and love as a Christian single. In the pages of this inspiring book, the author answers nagging questions that single Christians are sometimes too shy to ask but are very eager to know about singleness, sex and marriage. Questions like: • Is it scriptural for a Christian lady to propose to a guy she finds attractive or is sure is her God-ordained spouse? • Is it compulsory for a Christian to be married to fulfil his/her purpose? • When is the right time to get married? • How do I overcome the temptation to be anxious because I’m still single at my age? • Am I still single because God doesn’t love me? • Why do I still have all these sexual urges even though I’m saved and single? • What’s the big deal about having sex before I’m married? • How will I know the right person to marry? • Is there any difference between dating and courtship and does that even matter? • How do I overcome couple envy? and much more. Each chapter takes the reader on a journey of understanding the wisdom in trusting God even when the hope of marriage has been deferred. They also equip the Christian single with practical insights on how to relish this season of their lives as they prepare for what they hope will be their next.
CAN I BE MARRIED ALREADY?! – Biblical Answers to The Questions That Plague Your Heart Because You’re Still Single
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In her first book, Ifeoma cuts to the heart of the matter with her witty, straight-forward, scriptural and relatable take on life and love as a Christian single. In the pages of this inspiring book, the author answers nagging questions that single Christians are sometimes too shy to ask but are very eager to know about singleness, sex and marriage. Questions like: • Is it scriptural for a Christian lady to propose to a guy she finds attractive or is sure is her God-ordained spouse? • Is it compulsory for a Christian to be married to fulfil his/her purpose? • When is the right time to get married? • How do I overcome the temptation to be anxious because I’m still single at my age? • Am I still single because God doesn’t love me? • Why do I still have all these sexual urges even though I’m saved and single? • What’s the big deal about having sex before I’m married? • How will I know the right person to marry? • Is there any difference between dating and courtship and does that even matter? • How do I overcome couple envy? and much more. Each chapter takes the reader on a journey of understanding the wisdom in trusting God even when the hope of marriage has been deferred. They also equip the Christian single with practical insights on how to relish this season of their lives as they prepare for what they hope will be their next.
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Ekoh-Chukwukelu .C. Emmanuel –
Can I be Married Already ?! is a riveting, intellectually engaging, spiritually enlightening, and most importantly, a timely book that every adult needs to read.
It’s a book that answers the questions that most singles are shy to ask. It clears the air on some of the assumptions most singles make when it comes to issues surrounding relationships, and it’s a vital tool for a coordinated steering in the journey of purpose. This is indeed a great work; this book is full of Wisdom, and I’m sure it’s going to be a blessing to anyone that reads it. I recommend this book to the singles in the conceptual stage, the matured stage, the singles that are tired of being single, the married, and to the parents, guardians and counselors who would need this today’s knowledge for the purposes of encouragement, training, and guidance.
Obasa Olorunfemi –
Ifeoma is also honest in her book and shares her experiences as they are.
One particular thing that I am glad Ifeoma addressed in her book was the question about what happens when physical/ emotional/ mental/ spiritual attributes of a potential bae doesn’t quite add up. i.e.: He/she is handsome/beautiful/endowed, is quite intelligent, emotionally matured but are lacking spiritually OR spiritually alive, emotionally aware, intelligent but not quite there for you in the beauty/ handsomeness department.
Another thing Ifeoma’s book tries to answer is on whether Christians sisters should shoot their shot or strategically position themselves or allow themselves to be match-made to be seen or just simply wait for a prospective suitor to approach them. Outside the book, I think that as long as you as a lady are not proposing/ giving him the ring OR taking extreme measures but walking in faith, I think shot shooting/ strategic positioning is fine. Remember however, that he doesn’t have to say “Yes” to you and you have no right to be angry over it. This is MY opinion, not Ifeoma’s though.
Of course, Ifeoma sheds light on enjoying singleness, on being horny as a holy and sanctified heaven-bound Christian. Interesting to see that there are still people who think that sanctified Christians never get horny. Just lol!
In all, its a good read.
Faith A. –
This is an amazing book… I will read it again and probably give my kids to read as well…. I have gifted it to my friends who have been blessed by it’s content.
It explores real issues especially for singles and even those in relationships. It’s completely relatable and you’ll probably see yourself in it.. I like the sex part… Lol… Buy it and see…..😁
Damiloju Adeleye –
Thank you Ifeoma for writing this book!
This book has carefully and biblically answered questions singles ask.
It literally touched every corner I could think of including those points I didn’t expect e.g “Couple envy”.
I recommend this book for every unmarried person (whether they are in a relationship or not). Such a blessing!